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mxandra:

In general, a pisces girl is an open-minded, free-spirited and adventurous type of person. She is typically go-with-the-flow and will rarely show resistance to going where ever you want to take her (unless she’s already dead set on something specific, but you’ll know because she will have already told you.)

For a pisces woman, a date can be an opportunity to experience something new with someone new.  The worst move you could make on the first date is show up without a plan. Asking her “what would you like to do?” will irritate her on several levels 1) you’ll be forcing her to be decisive, which usually isn’t her strong point. (If you really want her to decide, it would be better to provide her with two or three options.) 2) She will interpret your question as “I hadn’t given our time together much thought until now.” 3) She tends to be attracted to take-charge personalities.

When deciding on where to take a pisces girl , my best advice would be to pick something slightly beyond the typical dinner and a movie. You’ve got to remember that you’ve got a quirky character on your hands- and an off kilter venue will put her in her element.

If you’ve got a date with a pisces woman and would like to take her somewhere that will appeal to her fishy sensibilities, here are some random places and ideas:

1.  Explore the Outdoors Through the Lens
Pack a digital camera and ask her to pack hers for your date together. Take her some place photogenic (like a garden, outdoor art exhibit, scenic nature trail or some place with a view) and challenge her to see who can take better photos. Swap cameras every now and then so that you’ll each have memories of each other. This will trigger her creative side and you can email her photos of your time together later.

2. Learn Something New Together
In every pisces girl, lies a inner nerd who excites in learning new things. Sign you two up for a cooking, painting, sculpture, dance, poetry writing, *insert something interesting here* class and have fun stimulating her mind.

3. Take Her to an Aquarium
Perhaps this sounds a little hokey, but this little fish sign will subconsciously feel at home at an aquarium. Exploring the underwater world will more than likely fascinate her and put her at ease. The blue, watery scene will create the perfect setting for stirring romance.

4. Inspire Her to Tap Her Feet
The body part that rules a pisces is the feet. When a pisces girl hears music, she will be inspired to move her feet and that makes for one very happy fishy. Take her some place to listen to music. For example: coffee house, live concert, smoky jazz bar, dancehall…you get the picture. You two may find yourselves dancing your way to another date before the night is through.

5. Cheese Up the Romance Factor
Pisces girls are ultra dreamy and suckers for romantic gestures: buy her flowers and champagne; take her for a hand and hand stroll some place pretty (a garden, a lovely neighborhood, a park, along a lake, river or beach); go to a bookstore and read poetry; take her on a horse drawn carriage ride; converse over a glowing fireplace; buy scented oil and give each other hand or foot massages; lie on a blanket and decide what shapes the clouds are making or count the stars at night; watch the sunset or sunrise. Be creative, she will appreciate the effort.

6. Excite Her Tastebuds
A pisces’ adventurous spirit will usually seep into the realm of food and drink. Take her for an off-the-wall dining experience and taste something exotic together. This will also stimulate her sense of adventure for new and far-away places.

7. Take Her People Watching
A pisces girl may not always be the most extroverted person but she does enjoy being around other people and observing. Take her someplace where you two can sit, make up stories about people walking by, giggle and watch the world go around you. Some ideas would be a pretty bus or train station (take some snacks and spin it like an adventure), an eatery where you can sit outside and watch people walk by, a park bench, or a festival.

8. Teach Her a New Activity
As mentioned before, pisces like learning new things and having new experiences. She also likes taking the time to explore hobbies and activities that particularly interest YOU. So why not show her some of them? Are you an avid golfer, bowler, skydiver, fisherman, chess player, wine snob, *insert quirky hobby here*? She may just admire your knowledge and she will be flattered that you are inviting her into “your world.”

9. Encourage Her to Play Dress Up
Pisces love fantasy and role-play and will have fun pretending to be someone else for a while. Take her to a thrift shop or costume store and enjoy trying on different outfits. It may be interesting for you to watch how her personality and mood shape-shifts with the different roles you two create.

10. Take Her to a Show
As mentioned above, a pisces girl loves fantasy and role play and will enjoy immersing herself in another world for a short while. Take her to the theater to watch a play, musical or opera. Or take her to watch a funky, independent film.

11. Show Her Your Soft Side
Pisces are very loving and giving souls and they have a natural inclination to want to help people who are in need. If you sign you two up for a volunteering opportunity, she will be excited to put her natural born skills to work and she will think you’re a total sweetie. To up the sparks, pick something fun, like volunteering at a children’s museum or planting trees in the park.

12. Stay in and Play Truth or Dare
A pisces loves having and sharing secrets.  She will especially love sharing and exploring these with you, her potential mate. Why not indulge her with a fun game of truth or dare? Grab a bottle or two of wine, put some music on, turn off the telephone and be ready to share some secrets or funny stories with her.

13. Lead Her to Water
Pisces is a water sign and she will naturally be inclined to be in or around her element. Being around water will soothe her soul and will probably help to draw out her most true self. So long as she can see, hear, smell or feel the water you could take her just about anywhere, so think outside the box: a fish pond, a lovely waterfall in a hotel lobby, a sparkling swimming pool, a babbling stream somewhere out in nature and of course anywhere near rivers, lakes or oceans.

I hope this helps to get your creative juices and sense of adventure flowing. Don’t be afraid to pick something that might sound a little odd to most girls. A pisces girl will sincerely appreciate the effort you put into planning your time together.

(Source: thepiscesgirl.com)